What was it that you had in mind?

WHAT WAS IT THAT YOU HAD IN MIND?

Presumably, given that you are reading this, you are living a life of some sort.

Right?

Tell me this: Is it the life you had in mind? The one you dreamed of when you were, say, 16, or maybe 21, or maybe the one you were sure you'd have by the time you reached 40?

Maybe the one you never told a single living soul that you wanted, the one you gave up on ages ago because other stuff got in the way, you got practical and serious-minded and told yourself to put all the silliness behind you?
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Me, Lynn Ingram

About Me

It's a journey, this life, and mine has been full and varied. I've loved a lot and been loved, I've wept a good bit and I suspect I was the reason for a few tears shed by others. I've been enchanted by the power of words and the incredible resilience of the human spirit forever. I love sorting out what makes us human beings tick and trying to find out how to make us tick better, starting with me. So now I'm a psychologist and a writer. On the way here, I was a teacher, an editor, a striker on a shrimp boat, an unsuccessful advertising sales rep, a little theatre actress, a student pilot, and a handful of other things. And I'm not done yet.

Monday, December 6, 2010

How useful is YOUR mind?


OK, up there in the links section - you know, that part that you aren't paying attention to because it doesn't look sexy and doesn't have little thumbnails or nifty pictures? Anyway, up there is the link to Tricycle. Nope, not the little 3-wheeled bike you rode as a kid, but instead, a wisdom-filled website that will, if you sign up for them, deliver nuggets like the one below to your email inbox every day.

Today's offering was especially good. Titled "Umbrella Mind," it's written by Gerry Shishin Wick in his "Dharma Discourse."

Now, read and ponder - and oh, what a great idea – maybe implement?

UMBRELLA MIND
Zen Master Dogen said that “not knowing is the most intimate thing.” Not knowing means to be open to all eventualities, to not prejudge a person or situation. If your mind is full of preconceived notions, there is no room for an unbiased view. It is like when your hands are full of objects, you cannot pick up anything new. A closed mind causes separation and suspicion. Like an umbrella, a mind is only useful when it is open. The first step toward maintaining an open mind is to understand the nature of mind or self.

-Gerry Shishin Wick, "Dharma Discourse"

Sunday, December 5, 2010

'Tis the season to eat everything you see

Yes, we do, don't we? All those goodies, all those office parties, neighborhood get-togethers, holiday dinners - oh, my! It's all so yummy - and so full of calories and butter and loads of other temptations.
And we'll soon be wearing the evidence around our middles and on our hips...
It doesn't really have to be that way - and not just at the holidays, but all the rest of the year, we don't really have to have an unhealthy relationship with food.
Click the link below and read some of the wisdom of Jan Chozen Bays to learn more about loving your food and inviting it to love you back.

http://www.tricycle.com/-food/mindful-eating?offer=dharma

Some of the reasons why meditation can do so much good!

There are a lot of really smart heavy hitters chiming in at this roundtable. Jon Kabat-Zinn was one of the first to really start "getting it" that meditation gives each of us so much power to move ourselves into a better life, to start teaching us that we don't have to be at the mercy of those things that we think we can't stop thinking about - you know, the ones that we think are going to drive us crazy! Read on...

http://www.tricycle.com/feature/roundtable-meeting-minds

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Share your illumination

 These are words of wisdom from Master Sheng Yen, from "Rich Generosity."

"When a candle is lit in a dark room, it illuminates the room to some extent, but its power is limited. But if you use the same candle to light another candle, the total brightness increases. If you continue to do this, you can fill the room with brilliant illumination. The idea of transferring merit to others is like this. If we keep our own light selfishly hidden, it will only provide a limited amount of illumination. But when we share our light with others, we do not diminish our own light. Rather, we increase the amount of light available to all. Therefore, when others light our candle, we issue forth light. When out of gratitude we use our candle to light other people’s candles, the whole room gets brighter. This is why we transfer merit to others. This kind of light is continuous and inexhaustible."