What was it that you had in mind?

WHAT WAS IT THAT YOU HAD IN MIND?

Presumably, given that you are reading this, you are living a life of some sort.

Right?

Tell me this: Is it the life you had in mind? The one you dreamed of when you were, say, 16, or maybe 21, or maybe the one you were sure you'd have by the time you reached 40?

Maybe the one you never told a single living soul that you wanted, the one you gave up on ages ago because other stuff got in the way, you got practical and serious-minded and told yourself to put all the silliness behind you?
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Me, Lynn Ingram

About Me

It's a journey, this life, and mine has been full and varied. I've loved a lot and been loved, I've wept a good bit and I suspect I was the reason for a few tears shed by others. I've been enchanted by the power of words and the incredible resilience of the human spirit forever. I love sorting out what makes us human beings tick and trying to find out how to make us tick better, starting with me. So now I'm a psychologist and a writer. On the way here, I was a teacher, an editor, a striker on a shrimp boat, an unsuccessful advertising sales rep, a little theatre actress, a student pilot, and a handful of other things. And I'm not done yet.

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Laughter truly IS the best medicine

One of these days, I'm going to start a LAUGHING CLUB. A LAUGHING GROUP. LAUGHTER THERAPY. Go ahead. Laugh. That's exactly what I want you to do. I've done this before - a little bit - and it was just amazing. In the early days of my psychology practice, I had a very small women's therapy group. After we'd been meeting for a number of weeks, one of the members, who was a twin, came to group and told us that her twin had died two weeks ago. We all listened and helped her process and remember and grieve. And then we laughed. Before that night's group, I had sent them the link below and asked if they'd like to try. All three had said yes. So we watched the clip, and laughed with it. And then I challenged them to laugh for 2 solid minutes without it. We went for nearly 4. We laughed at nothing and at each other - and then we pulled the little glass pebbles out of a bowl I have on the table and tossed them at each other and laughed harder. One pebble went down a shirt front by accident; then it became a game to try to land them there. (Ages here were 79, 71 or 72, 60-something, and 55.) So afterward, I asked them what happened, what it did. The ALL said they forgot every single thing that was bothering them, that they felt lighter, they played and loved it, realized they don't play enough, that it's THAT easy to get outside of what's eating you. Here's the information we shared about laughter clubs: Laughter Yoga Clubs Laughter Yoga Clubs were started by Indian physician, Dr. Madan Kataria in 1995 with just five people. Today, the Laughter Movement is widely accepted and has become a global phenomenon with over 6000 clubs in 60 countries. Realizing the tremendous power of laughter and its efficacy as the best prescription for wellness, Laughter Clubs have brought smiles and laughter in the lives of many people suffering from physical and mental and emotional upsets. http://www.laughteryoga.org/english

Four minutes

Take four minutes and let this volunteer firefighter tell you how to make your life count. Really. Just do it. You have four minutes. http://www.ted.com/talks/mark_bezos_a_life_lesson_from_a_volunteer_firefighter